A Letter To The Girl Who Feels Stuck

Hi, you!

I just wanted to let you know that you are doing great. You woke up today and sometimes that is the hardest thing to do. 

I am so proud of you. Even though life is tough and friends can be shitty and family may be breathing down your neck, you are doing the best you know how to take care of you and the people around you.

You are so special. I hope you can see that - you are so wonderfully you. If you can't see this now, I hope one day you do. You are such a light to the people around you.

It is okay if you don't feel okay but please make sure you take care of you. This is so important because if you don't, this weight you feel with only get heavier. Your heart will only hurt more and the loneliness gets worse. 

You are inspiring to others. You may never meet these people or hear their admiration, but somebody out there looks to you for strength. 

I love you. I am so excited to see all that you will do with your life. I cherish the person you are right now in this moment - even if you may feel a little lost. 

You are more powerful than you will ever know. It is time to stand up and own who you are. Stop giving your power away to people and situations. Own it and let it transform you into your true self.

It will get better. I promise. But it might take some effort on your part. You will eventually find your people and your passion and the things that make you blissfully happy. Please don't ever give up hope in this. It is crucial that you always believe that it gets better. 

Here are some little tools to help you keep being you.

  • A song for reflection (yes, it is cheesy but listen to it in a quiet safe place and you will get all the feels): Feels Like Home - Edwin Hayes
  • Movies to feel good about: Under The Tuscan Sun & Stuck in Love.
  • Here are a couple phone background reminders: